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		<title>By: armenian step-grandfather</title>
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		<dc:creator>armenian step-grandfather</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 10:19:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I feel the same.</description>
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		<title>By: Mrs.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mrs.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 21:38:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My husband was the same way then he met me. and hence..he&#039;s my husband.  I loved him because we made great friends before great sex.  We&#039;ve been married 10yrs and still going strong.  Don&#039;t be discouraged the right girl will come around.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husband was the same way then he met me. and hence..he&#8217;s my husband.  I loved him because we made great friends before great sex.  We&#8217;ve been married 10yrs and still going strong.  Don&#8217;t be discouraged the right girl will come around.</p>
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		<title>By: senseless chicken</title>
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		<dc:creator>senseless chicken</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Sep 2009 08:20:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a girl in a similar position, you are not the only one, and perhaps you should look for other shy people hiding in the shadows.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a girl in a similar position, you are not the only one, and perhaps you should look for other shy people hiding in the shadows.</p>
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		<title>By: Jen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 03:18:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ugh... fuck the misogynistic comments your post has gotten.
Those dudes are total losers.
Fuck anyone who thinks they&#039;re better than you just because they get laid all the time. It&#039;s really not all it&#039;s cracked up to be.

Hey, honestly, the whole &quot;dating game&quot; is a really stupid concept.
I gave up trying closed relationships and gender roles a while ago.
All it really does is restrict your true feelings/urges and hold you back from being who you really are.
I&#039;m proud of you for feeling the way you do!
If these people really just want a knight in shining armor who&#039;s going to sweep them off their feet, fuck them for a while, and then eventually leave for no real reason, then are they really worth you time?

It&#039;s alright sweetheart, your time will come, if that&#039;s what you desire.
Just don&#039;t worry about it too much.
Things tend to have a way to work themselves out.

With love,

-Jen</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ugh&#8230; fuck the misogynistic comments your post has gotten.<br />
Those dudes are total losers.<br />
Fuck anyone who thinks they&#8217;re better than you just because they get laid all the time. It&#8217;s really not all it&#8217;s cracked up to be.</p>
<p>Hey, honestly, the whole &#8220;dating game&#8221; is a really stupid concept.<br />
I gave up trying closed relationships and gender roles a while ago.<br />
All it really does is restrict your true feelings/urges and hold you back from being who you really are.<br />
I&#8217;m proud of you for feeling the way you do!<br />
If these people really just want a knight in shining armor who&#8217;s going to sweep them off their feet, fuck them for a while, and then eventually leave for no real reason, then are they really worth you time?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s alright sweetheart, your time will come, if that&#8217;s what you desire.<br />
Just don&#8217;t worry about it too much.<br />
Things tend to have a way to work themselves out.</p>
<p>With love,</p>
<p>-Jen</p>
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		<title>By: american motherfucker</title>
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		<dc:creator>american motherfucker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 04:23:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amazon three books

first buy 
The way of the superior man

then read

How to be the jerk women love

then read
The Sex god method

-Then be bad (good) to one woman all your life</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amazon three books</p>
<p>first buy<br />
The way of the superior man</p>
<p>then read</p>
<p>How to be the jerk women love</p>
<p>then read<br />
The Sex god method</p>
<p>-Then be bad (good) to one woman all your life</p>
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		<title>By: Truth &#38; Honor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Truth &#38; Honor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 20:06:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes be yourself....your fine. Frivolous sex and all it entails is a trap, it&#039;s a drug that can ruin your life. When your a sex addict you can&#039;t think or function as a person should. You need to distance your self from toxic friends also...they want you to be &quot;hooked&quot;(on a feeling)like them.

Life is so beautiful....live it to the fullest with-out all the garbage in your head. That certain someone will come along when your not looking for them....but having fun living. Romance is NOT sex. Sex is the &quot;topping&quot; in a loving relation ship.

Then even when you have to go a long time without it if your mate is away.....you blush remembering the last blissful moment!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes be yourself&#8230;.your fine. Frivolous sex and all it entails is a trap, it&#8217;s a drug that can ruin your life. When your a sex addict you can&#8217;t think or function as a person should. You need to distance your self from toxic friends also&#8230;they want you to be &#8220;hooked&#8221;(on a feeling)like them.</p>
<p>Life is so beautiful&#8230;.live it to the fullest with-out all the garbage in your head. That certain someone will come along when your not looking for them&#8230;.but having fun living. Romance is NOT sex. Sex is the &#8220;topping&#8221; in a loving relation ship.</p>
<p>Then even when you have to go a long time without it if your mate is away&#8230;..you blush remembering the last blissful moment!</p>
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		<title>By: Jay</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2009 12:22:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Okay, look now.
                   
So, this is
what&#039;s about to happen,
all right?
                   
You about to go run down
some drunk chicks, all right?
                   
And don&#039;t confuse
that with tipsy.
We talking about drunk.
                   
I want vomit in the hair,
bruised-up knees.
                   
A broken heel is a plus.
                   
That&#039;s what you
want to find, okay?

You ain&#039;t got to think
on this one.
                   
All you got to do
is use your instinct.
                   
Show me your instincts.
                   
Own your instincts.
                   
All you doing
is using your instinct.
That&#039;s it.
                   
That&#039;s how a tiger know
he got to tackle a gazelle.
                   
There&#039;s a code
written in his DNA.
                   
It says,
&quot;Tackle the gazelle.&quot;
Okay.  
                   
And believe it or not,
in every man, there&#039;s
a code written that says:   
                   
&quot;Tackle drunk bitches.&quot;

I&#039;m trying to say
I wanna get you laid, dude.
                   
I understand
what&#039;s going on.

From now on,
your dick is my dick.
I&#039;m getting you some pussy.

It&#039;s not about
this rusty trombone
and dirty Sanchez.

Now with your peripherals...
       
...you got to scope out
a hot, drunk chick.
                   
And then you should
make your move.
                   
And remember, it&#039;s
more important that she&#039;s
drunk than she&#039;s hot.

Let me just say...   
                   
you&#039;re putting the pussy up
on this pedestal.
                   
You&#039;re just building
the pussy up, man.

You making the pussy into
this great big Greek goddess
named Pussalia...
                   
and what you&#039;re doing is...
                   
you&#039;re psyching yourself
into thinking
it&#039;s some impossible feat.

So what you just
got to do is...  
                   
just get you a bunch
of hood rats...   
                   
run through them,
just knock them out.   
                   
Boom, boom, boom.   
                   
And once you&#039;ve done
slayed like 20 or 30
of them hood rats...  
                   
now you ready to go up
to the upper echelon type ho.  
                   
You know what I mean?
I&#039;m not a big ho runner.   
                   
My uncle used to drive
a ho runner.

You want to have sex
with hood rats first...  
                   
so that by the time
you get to the girl
you do like...  
                   
you&#039;re not terrible at sex,
you&#039;ll be mediocre at it.   
                   
Probably still
pretty bad, though.

We&#039;re gonna need
more wax.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, look now.</p>
<p>So, this is<br />
what&#8217;s about to happen,<br />
all right?</p>
<p>You about to go run down<br />
some drunk chicks, all right?</p>
<p>And don&#8217;t confuse<br />
that with tipsy.<br />
We talking about drunk.</p>
<p>I want vomit in the hair,<br />
bruised-up knees.</p>
<p>A broken heel is a plus.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s what you<br />
want to find, okay?</p>
<p>You ain&#8217;t got to think<br />
on this one.</p>
<p>All you got to do<br />
is use your instinct.</p>
<p>Show me your instincts.</p>
<p>Own your instincts.</p>
<p>All you doing<br />
is using your instinct.<br />
That&#8217;s it.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s how a tiger know<br />
he got to tackle a gazelle.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s a code<br />
written in his DNA.</p>
<p>It says,<br />
&#8220;Tackle the gazelle.&#8221;<br />
Okay.  </p>
<p>And believe it or not,<br />
in every man, there&#8217;s<br />
a code written that says:   </p>
<p>&#8220;Tackle drunk bitches.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m trying to say<br />
I wanna get you laid, dude.</p>
<p>I understand<br />
what&#8217;s going on.</p>
<p>From now on,<br />
your dick is my dick.<br />
I&#8217;m getting you some pussy.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not about<br />
this rusty trombone<br />
and dirty Sanchez.</p>
<p>Now with your peripherals&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230;you got to scope out<br />
a hot, drunk chick.</p>
<p>And then you should<br />
make your move.</p>
<p>And remember, it&#8217;s<br />
more important that she&#8217;s<br />
drunk than she&#8217;s hot.</p>
<p>Let me just say&#8230;   </p>
<p>you&#8217;re putting the pussy up<br />
on this pedestal.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re just building<br />
the pussy up, man.</p>
<p>You making the pussy into<br />
this great big Greek goddess<br />
named Pussalia&#8230;</p>
<p>and what you&#8217;re doing is&#8230;</p>
<p>you&#8217;re psyching yourself<br />
into thinking<br />
it&#8217;s some impossible feat.</p>
<p>So what you just<br />
got to do is&#8230;  </p>
<p>just get you a bunch<br />
of hood rats&#8230;   </p>
<p>run through them,<br />
just knock them out.   </p>
<p>Boom, boom, boom.   </p>
<p>And once you&#8217;ve done<br />
slayed like 20 or 30<br />
of them hood rats&#8230;  </p>
<p>now you ready to go up<br />
to the upper echelon type ho.  </p>
<p>You know what I mean?<br />
I&#8217;m not a big ho runner.   </p>
<p>My uncle used to drive<br />
a ho runner.</p>
<p>You want to have sex<br />
with hood rats first&#8230;  </p>
<p>so that by the time<br />
you get to the girl<br />
you do like&#8230;  </p>
<p>you&#8217;re not terrible at sex,<br />
you&#8217;ll be mediocre at it.   </p>
<p>Probably still<br />
pretty bad, though.</p>
<p>We&#8217;re gonna need<br />
more wax.</p>
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		<title>By: The Love Guru</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Love Guru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 09:25:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>(a) learn how women actually behave and quit bitching that they don&#039;t behave as you would have liked.
(b) ejaculate into a sock for the rest of your miserable life.

pick one.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(a) learn how women actually behave and quit bitching that they don&#8217;t behave as you would have liked.<br />
(b) ejaculate into a sock for the rest of your miserable life.</p>
<p>pick one.</p>
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		<title>By: Freedom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Freedom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 08:03:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow! You are the REAL thing. The mating games/rules are a deception! You are not alone! All the best to you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow! You are the REAL thing. The mating games/rules are a deception! You are not alone! All the best to you!</p>
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		<title>By: important waitress</title>
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		<dc:creator>important waitress</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2009 15:23:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One word - Prostitute.</description>
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		<title>By: wiseguy</title>
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		<dc:creator>wiseguy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 20:14:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>sign up for co-ed extracuricular activities that you like, there will be women, you will have soemthing in common, go with it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>sign up for co-ed extracuricular activities that you like, there will be women, you will have soemthing in common, go with it.</p>
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		<title>By: Daniel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2009 16:21:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>2 words: DAVID DEANGELO

You will have a new woman every night..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>2 words: DAVID DEANGELO</p>
<p>You will have a new woman every night..</p>
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		<title>By: overweight medical technician</title>
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		<dc:creator>overweight medical technician</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 04:53:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>waaaaaaa waaaaaaa go find yourself a practice girl or maybe die.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>waaaaaaa waaaaaaa go find yourself a practice girl or maybe die.</p>
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		<title>By: Mr. Blunt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mr. Blunt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2009 09:07:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hookers Have Economy Crisis Packages Now</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hookers Have Economy Crisis Packages Now</p>
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		<title>By: brother in spirit</title>
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		<dc:creator>brother in spirit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2009 20:44:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi!
my advice is, you are not abnormal, this whole dating and breaking up game is. i think its pretty natural for you to be apalled by this fake acting that is called dating/hooking up. i had the same idea, that i would die a virgin, because i just didnt want to/was too for all this dating crap. i tried the usual fake dating methods, but it netted only fake relationships that didnt last long (logical, when you think about it) but then i found the right girl, and it didnt matter anymore, because she didnt like that stupid game either, so we just behaved like it felt comfortable. 
so just be yourself, dont change because everyone is fucked up, just because 1000nds are doing it, doesnt make it right. and also, whats right is different for everyone, so for some this might actually the way, but not for you obviously.
I wish you the best of luck, you will probably feel it when the right person comes around, dont get away again^^

p.s.like everything, romance and the lot is not something known from birth, so for learning it, this dating may be apropriate, to experience mistakes, breakup and important stuff that you dont want to be inexperienced in when dealing with the real deal</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi!<br />
my advice is, you are not abnormal, this whole dating and breaking up game is. i think its pretty natural for you to be apalled by this fake acting that is called dating/hooking up. i had the same idea, that i would die a virgin, because i just didnt want to/was too for all this dating crap. i tried the usual fake dating methods, but it netted only fake relationships that didnt last long (logical, when you think about it) but then i found the right girl, and it didnt matter anymore, because she didnt like that stupid game either, so we just behaved like it felt comfortable.<br />
so just be yourself, dont change because everyone is fucked up, just because 1000nds are doing it, doesnt make it right. and also, whats right is different for everyone, so for some this might actually the way, but not for you obviously.<br />
I wish you the best of luck, you will probably feel it when the right person comes around, dont get away again^^</p>
<p>p.s.like everything, romance and the lot is not something known from birth, so for learning it, this dating may be apropriate, to experience mistakes, breakup and important stuff that you dont want to be inexperienced in when dealing with the real deal</p>
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		<title>By: Mike.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 15:19:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stop playing their game. Date an older lady. Find someone who has lived long enough to be a good woman.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stop playing their game. Date an older lady. Find someone who has lived long enough to be a good woman.</p>
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		<title>By: Phil</title>
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		<dc:creator>Phil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 18:42:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Some of these suggestions are nice... and might actually get you some action a time or two... (eventually).. . but overall, if you want to make a difference in your life you have to look at how you are going about things... if your not willing to do this... then you will never really succeed... 
yah, there are girls out there who would love to take your virginity... and that might work...
but only short term... but maybe that can show you what your missing long enough to do something about yourself for the long term...

I&#039;m 35 years old, I have been very shy most of my life... but have spent the last 15 years studying psychology in general, and much on how men &amp; women differ and how they interact...

I gave the links to information before, http://www.doubleyourdating.com  by david deanglo which is the best program I have seen anywhere, at explaining how this works... and how you can go about doing simple things to get more of what you want... It has nothing to do with society&#039;s programming of women, as you will see... women are not rational when it comes to sex and attraction, that is your first and biggest mistake. They have no choice, they just are attracted or not, and only a small part of it is physical... they read everything from body language to voice tone... without ever even being taught... If you think you can talk her overies out of 50 million years of evolution, then you really do need to get an education...

The fact is, it is a game... and the reason is that is how nature works, and when you are talking about sex, you are talking about nature... ie. the birds and the bees and the slimy things between your knees... if you want to have tea and crumpits and say sweet things to the girl and then expect her to get horny and bend over for you... then you are living in a fantasy land... If you can&#039;t bring yourself to get with the program to get what you say you want... then perhaps your passive mutant seed does not deserve to be passed on to another generation... 

If you want to listen to others who want to help you feel like a victim, and say don&#039;t change, hold onto your values... then get yourself a lifetime supply of  lube and invest in some new sheets... because that will be your destiny.... untily you reailze that the world does not happen to you you happen to it... and that is how manhood works... It took me till my 30&#039;s to realize this, don&#039;t let yourself wait that long...

What motivates a woman&#039;s sexual desire is action, attitude &amp; energy... and it has nothing to do with being macho, or fake... it has to be real... (a game that requires you being real, but directed specifically)  it&#039;s not that she&#039;s fake it&#039;s that she is a biologically a woman and that is how nature works... it&#039;s really not that difficult...

Men in this society have had this kind of thinking &amp; awareness trounced out of them.. and often we&#039;re not even taught what it looks like. This is often because we have domineering mothers, single moms or no example of a healthy dad or model for healthy manhood...

I know I never did and sturggled for many years, and I am a guy who is lucky enough to who get&#039;s a lot of looks... and could even get away with not doing any of those things
and still get picked up once in a while... (But not as often as people would think, because women go for energy more then looks 90% of the time)...  

The reason people say nice guys finish last (sometimes called a &quot;wussy&quot; is because that is a man that is a pleaser... and this kind of man, often doesn&#039;t get much of what he wants out of other areas of life either until he learns to stop doing this... A pleaser is someone who does everything else to please everyone else but himself and  that is exactly the opposite of what turns a woman on... developed through 50 million years of evolution, which no amount of rational behavior is going to change... a woman gets turned on by a guy who is willing to go with his desire and let what he wants override any fears he has... that is what benig a man is... and she knows it in her bones blindfolded...   and if you have ever seen a short average guy with a tall beautiful babe... it&#039;s because he learned this... and she is happy with that... It doesn&#039;t mean you have to lose your sensitivity, you just direct it in a different way... 

 take my word for it and check out the david deangelo stuff... you can probably even find it on youtube... and cheap on ebay... I&#039;ll even send you some if you can&#039;t afford it...  if it&#039;s hard to do on your own get a couch to help you...   there are many other worthwhile things but I&#039;ve found these to be the most effective and informative... and as he says hang out with people who get the things that you say you want... easily.. and see how they do it... no matter what it is you want... 

We all need sex... stop depriving  yourself of this, it&#039;s really unhealthy, I know cuz like I said I did it for years... but now know how things work more... and can direct myself appropriately, without comprisiming my dignity in anyway...

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
wake up and smell the pussy that&#039;s waiting for you to dive in.....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some of these suggestions are nice&#8230; and might actually get you some action a time or two&#8230; (eventually).. . but overall, if you want to make a difference in your life you have to look at how you are going about things&#8230; if your not willing to do this&#8230; then you will never really succeed&#8230;<br />
yah, there are girls out there who would love to take your virginity&#8230; and that might work&#8230;<br />
but only short term&#8230; but maybe that can show you what your missing long enough to do something about yourself for the long term&#8230;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m 35 years old, I have been very shy most of my life&#8230; but have spent the last 15 years studying psychology in general, and much on how men &amp; women differ and how they interact&#8230;</p>
<p>I gave the links to information before, <a href="http://www.doubleyourdating.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.doubleyourdating.com</a>  by david deanglo which is the best program I have seen anywhere, at explaining how this works&#8230; and how you can go about doing simple things to get more of what you want&#8230; It has nothing to do with society&#8217;s programming of women, as you will see&#8230; women are not rational when it comes to sex and attraction, that is your first and biggest mistake. They have no choice, they just are attracted or not, and only a small part of it is physical&#8230; they read everything from body language to voice tone&#8230; without ever even being taught&#8230; If you think you can talk her overies out of 50 million years of evolution, then you really do need to get an education&#8230;</p>
<p>The fact is, it is a game&#8230; and the reason is that is how nature works, and when you are talking about sex, you are talking about nature&#8230; ie. the birds and the bees and the slimy things between your knees&#8230; if you want to have tea and crumpits and say sweet things to the girl and then expect her to get horny and bend over for you&#8230; then you are living in a fantasy land&#8230; If you can&#8217;t bring yourself to get with the program to get what you say you want&#8230; then perhaps your passive mutant seed does not deserve to be passed on to another generation&#8230; </p>
<p>If you want to listen to others who want to help you feel like a victim, and say don&#8217;t change, hold onto your values&#8230; then get yourself a lifetime supply of  lube and invest in some new sheets&#8230; because that will be your destiny&#8230;. untily you reailze that the world does not happen to you you happen to it&#8230; and that is how manhood works&#8230; It took me till my 30&#8242;s to realize this, don&#8217;t let yourself wait that long&#8230;</p>
<p>What motivates a woman&#8217;s sexual desire is action, attitude &amp; energy&#8230; and it has nothing to do with being macho, or fake&#8230; it has to be real&#8230; (a game that requires you being real, but directed specifically)  it&#8217;s not that she&#8217;s fake it&#8217;s that she is a biologically a woman and that is how nature works&#8230; it&#8217;s really not that difficult&#8230;</p>
<p>Men in this society have had this kind of thinking &amp; awareness trounced out of them.. and often we&#8217;re not even taught what it looks like. This is often because we have domineering mothers, single moms or no example of a healthy dad or model for healthy manhood&#8230;</p>
<p>I know I never did and sturggled for many years, and I am a guy who is lucky enough to who get&#8217;s a lot of looks&#8230; and could even get away with not doing any of those things<br />
and still get picked up once in a while&#8230; (But not as often as people would think, because women go for energy more then looks 90% of the time)&#8230;  </p>
<p>The reason people say nice guys finish last (sometimes called a &#8220;wussy&#8221; is because that is a man that is a pleaser&#8230; and this kind of man, often doesn&#8217;t get much of what he wants out of other areas of life either until he learns to stop doing this&#8230; A pleaser is someone who does everything else to please everyone else but himself and  that is exactly the opposite of what turns a woman on&#8230; developed through 50 million years of evolution, which no amount of rational behavior is going to change&#8230; a woman gets turned on by a guy who is willing to go with his desire and let what he wants override any fears he has&#8230; that is what benig a man is&#8230; and she knows it in her bones blindfolded&#8230;   and if you have ever seen a short average guy with a tall beautiful babe&#8230; it&#8217;s because he learned this&#8230; and she is happy with that&#8230; It doesn&#8217;t mean you have to lose your sensitivity, you just direct it in a different way&#8230; </p>
<p> take my word for it and check out the david deangelo stuff&#8230; you can probably even find it on youtube&#8230; and cheap on ebay&#8230; I&#8217;ll even send you some if you can&#8217;t afford it&#8230;  if it&#8217;s hard to do on your own get a couch to help you&#8230;   there are many other worthwhile things but I&#8217;ve found these to be the most effective and informative&#8230; and as he says hang out with people who get the things that you say you want&#8230; easily.. and see how they do it&#8230; no matter what it is you want&#8230; </p>
<p>We all need sex&#8230; stop depriving  yourself of this, it&#8217;s really unhealthy, I know cuz like I said I did it for years&#8230; but now know how things work more&#8230; and can direct myself appropriately, without comprisiming my dignity in anyway&#8230;</p>
<p>The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.<br />
wake up and smell the pussy that&#8217;s waiting for you to dive in&#8230;..</p>
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		<title>By: inconsiderate pig</title>
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		<dc:creator>inconsiderate pig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2009 03:43:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s hard for most guys to learn how to date. The only thing different about you is you didn&#039;t get that bit of learning out of the way already.

Even if you&#039;re good at it it&#039;s hard. I&#039;ve been with and dated my share of hot women and after a recent break up I&#039;m dreading having to get out of my comfort zone in the dating scene again.

Stop caring about what you think women want. It&#039;s usually enough just to not be a freak of nature and not make a big deal out of the fact that you want to date/hook up.

Also, try playing the virgin card. It worked AMAZING for a friend of mine. (Who was also a real virgin in his 20s)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s hard for most guys to learn how to date. The only thing different about you is you didn&#8217;t get that bit of learning out of the way already.</p>
<p>Even if you&#8217;re good at it it&#8217;s hard. I&#8217;ve been with and dated my share of hot women and after a recent break up I&#8217;m dreading having to get out of my comfort zone in the dating scene again.</p>
<p>Stop caring about what you think women want. It&#8217;s usually enough just to not be a freak of nature and not make a big deal out of the fact that you want to date/hook up.</p>
<p>Also, try playing the virgin card. It worked AMAZING for a friend of mine. (Who was also a real virgin in his 20s)</p>
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		<title>By: FourestBlandford.</title>
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		<dc:creator>FourestBlandford.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2009 01:25:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you just have to find the girl who&#039;ll lead you. I was a shy kid.. and i had a girl who just lead me to what I was suppose to do. .and I was confused most of the time but she guided me through all the way ..from kissing to sex. : )</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you just have to find the girl who&#8217;ll lead you. I was a shy kid.. and i had a girl who just lead me to what I was suppose to do. .and I was confused most of the time but she guided me through all the way ..from kissing to sex. : )</p>
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		<title>By: Hello !</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hello !</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Mar 2009 19:55:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my God I feel so the same. This freakin game girls want to play !

My advice: be yourself, don&#039;t ever change !!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my God I feel so the same. This freakin game girls want to play !</p>
<p>My advice: be yourself, don&#8217;t ever change !!!</p>
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		<title>By: rubber the band</title>
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		<dc:creator>rubber the band</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 10:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Putting an effort into impressing because of caring and desiering her is what she sees. Kinda like if you HAD a girlfriend and she made you a star-wars-dinner and was princess leia for dessert, just to show you she loves you. That kinda thing.

U go boy ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Putting an effort into impressing because of caring and desiering her is what she sees. Kinda like if you HAD a girlfriend and she made you a star-wars-dinner and was princess leia for dessert, just to show you she loves you. That kinda thing.</p>
<p>U go boy <img src='http://confessionpoint.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: responsible arsonist</title>
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		<dc:creator>responsible arsonist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 04:36:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>if your sincere about wanting to get beyond the pattern and get what you want... try out this
it will change your life... you have to do it though... no one can do it for you... you can have a life you never thought possible... I know i&#039;ve done it
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>if your sincere about wanting to get beyond the pattern and get what you want&#8230; try out this<br />
it will change your life&#8230; you have to do it though&#8230; no one can do it for you&#8230; you can have a life you never thought possible&#8230; I know i&#8217;ve done it</p>
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		<title>By: hard father</title>
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		<dc:creator>hard father</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 19:50:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I feel exactly like you, you are not alone</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel exactly like you, you are not alone</p>
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