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#1322 (1 comments): linda worked with me about two years ago. we got close due to the high stress environment etc. - the kind of thing that happens all the time i guess. we were both married but spent more time at the office. goodbyes occasionally turned into hugs, hugs got longer. started kissing.
next thing we start hanging out regularly in her car. pretty much "makeout sessions" to use a probably out-of-date phrase. a lot of groping on both sides. hands up her skirt, under her blouse etc. - didn't go further than that. things got big-time messy as her husband figured out something was up (how, i don't know) and she decided to move on to another company. caught up with her recently, went to lunch. she's single now and i think was interested but i've also since gotten divorced and i'm with someone else who's really good to me. don't want to go down that road again. while there's definitely a feeling of missed connections and opportunities, i must admit, one of the things that goes through my mind most often is that i really should have fucked her when i had the chance. damn. -- rob Posted on Thursday, July 03, 2008
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#4911: I have been down a small part of that road. I think you'll feel better living guilt-free and not having fucked her than you would feel if you had actually cheated on someone with her. But if you feel that bad about having missed your opportunity, and if you think there's a chance to have a reltionship with her, and i you think she's interested, then why not taking a break from your other girl for awhile, just to see what would happen? I certainly wouldn't advocate cheating. But, on the other hand, you don't want to have all those "what ifs" in the back of your mind while you're trying to have another relationship. It's not fair to you, and it's not fair to either of the women. You've got to either forget about the girl you had lunch with the other day, or else break up with the girl you're with now and try the other one on for size.
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