Comments on: lizzielove’s confession about Anger, Hate, Love and Relationships http://confessionpoint.com/lizzieloves-confession-about-anger-hate-love-and-relationships/ When you must confess! Mon, 25 Jul 2011 18:20:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: mx http://confessionpoint.com/lizzieloves-confession-about-anger-hate-love-and-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-3399 mx Mon, 01 Dec 2008 15:16:53 +0000 http://confessionpoint.com/?p=1119#comment-3399 Believe it or not it would help if he knew. Your problem isn't even about sex. That's just the manifestation. Molestation is all about broken trust. The person who molested you broke a sacred trust. The only thing that doesn't make molestation rape is the fact that you are too innocent/naive to realize that you are being rapped. I agree with Ranius if you want to overcome this you need to talk it over with your boyfriend. What you're saying is you don't trust him with your secret. If you can't trust him with your secret then how can you trust him with your body? By holding back you're not letting it out. Being rapped or molested doesn't count against you. Non consensual sex isn't sex it's abuse. Your boyfriend won't judge you he'll at least have an idea what you're going through and it will take a load off of his chest. More than likely he's confused and thinks it's something he's done. If you need more detailed advice I'd be happy to help. This is an issue close at heart for me. Believe it or not it would help if he knew. Your problem isn’t even about sex. That’s just the manifestation. Molestation is all about broken trust. The person who molested you broke a sacred trust. The only thing that doesn’t make molestation rape is the fact that you are too innocent/naive to realize that you are being rapped.

I agree with Ranius if you want to overcome this you need to talk it over with your boyfriend. What you’re saying is you don’t trust him with your secret. If you can’t trust him with your secret then how can you trust him with your body? By holding back you’re not letting it out.

Being rapped or molested doesn’t count against you. Non consensual sex isn’t sex it’s abuse. Your boyfriend won’t judge you he’ll at least have an idea what you’re going through and it will take a load off of his chest. More than likely he’s confused and thinks it’s something he’s done. If you need more detailed advice I’d be happy to help. This is an issue close at heart for me.

]]> By: Ranius http://confessionpoint.com/lizzieloves-confession-about-anger-hate-love-and-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-2580 Ranius Tue, 21 Oct 2008 22:40:43 +0000 http://confessionpoint.com/?p=1119#comment-2580 stallion's got a point. i'd also like to point out that with the right support, you can overcome a problem like that, if you feel comfortable enough around the person. however, for that to work the other person needs to be aware of your condition so they can cooperate. stallion’s got a point. i’d also like to point out that with the right support, you can overcome a problem like that, if you feel comfortable enough around the person. however, for that to work the other person needs to be aware of your condition so they can cooperate.

]]> By: Italian Stallion http://confessionpoint.com/lizzieloves-confession-about-anger-hate-love-and-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-2570 Italian Stallion Mon, 20 Oct 2008 01:29:37 +0000 http://confessionpoint.com/?p=1119#comment-2570 I hope someone gets their hands on your molester and castrates the motherfucker. And...I know you probably won't give a flying feck about what I'VE got to say about it, but... ...if you care about this guy you're with enough, do you think it's possible to seek professional help (discretely)? I mean, I don't actually know what kind of situation you're in, but you do seem pretty damned scared of physical contact, and just as intent about not letting people close to you know about it. So...sign up, in secret, to some sort of psychological evaluation? Just to see if it'd be any help at all? I hope someone gets their hands on your molester and castrates the motherfucker.

And…I know you probably won’t give a flying feck about what I’VE got to say about it, but…

…if you care about this guy you’re with enough, do you think it’s possible to seek professional help (discretely)?

I mean, I don’t actually know what kind of situation you’re in, but you do seem pretty damned scared of physical contact, and just as intent about not letting people close to you know about it.

So…sign up, in secret, to some sort of psychological evaluation? Just to see if it’d be any help at all?

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